Disrespectful feeling

 You know I have a son that lives with his mom in another country, and thus, a different culture, language and also mentality.

I have never been in synchrony with that culture or attitude. I find them to be not caring about others , Little or not show any feelings along with the fact that they basically think about themselves and their own interests, not even caring about what anyone else thinks. In conclusion their feelings and interests are always more important that others.

Not to talk about social manners , like eating, showing Respec and interest about others or even thinking to please other just because you appreciate them is not something that belongs to their attitude.

Obviously I am not feeling comfortable at all. He has come over to visit but he remains distant to me. Maybe he doesnt know how to care about others or has not been taught.

In any case, he is probably used to like a spoiled type of education where almost everything is given to him without discussion.

I don't know how to explain it but for me i seem to not receive any kind of respect or love even though he is my son, instead he treats me like if I was anyone.

I know I'm not going to change that attitude but I do have the right to show him what Respec, care about others and empathy means, as it seems this is not part of formal education.

I don't think that he notices that he needs me as much as I need him but without love and care it's impossible to make a relationship strxonger 

I have been psychologically not feeling well since he arrived. He needs to understand that he is not special and that respect, manners and education go first.